1: open bns buddy
2: go to tab called "mod manager"
3: press on "mod folder" button
4: create a folder called "Pole Dance" in the opened window
5: Put the upk file in that folder
6: Press refresh in bns buddy (mod manager tab)
7: Mod should appear and select it, then press "mod selected" wait until it's done then enjoy playing with pole dance by using the first dance of your character (only female)